教育孩子要教育他吃三样东西：吃饭、吃苦、...

学帮9axl 发表于 2016-12-31 20:05:12

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color: rgb(255, 41, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育孩子要教育他吃三样东西，第一吃饭，第二吃苦，第三吃亏。吃饭吃的好，可以获得身体的健康。能吃苦耐劳，尊重自然，敬畏圣人，这个心就健康。不怕吃亏，肯把好处给别人，那灵性就健康。健康，分为身体健康，心健康，灵性健康。<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/AAoNKwfGZQrGQCQyRwPSD5fGicvT0drPQqibiaf7ng8Sibb5dfJS1iawx8MhOGIsfZc2j72icVKTOMchKSFVl8OWYKeQ.png<section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="87417" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">吃饭要懂得吃饭，从吃饭就可以看出一个人是否对自然造化有感恩之心。首先就是对吃的。第一<section data-id="87470" data-tools="135编辑器" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-style="text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;color: #666666;" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">让孩子怀着一颗感恩的心来享受每一顿饭。这种感恩包括对大自然各个季节给我们带来各种当季的美味，包括对制作这些食物的人，也包括给我们补充营养和能量的这些食物。这种感恩的心情，比起拿筷子的方式，比起吃饭的坐姿，更应该作为一种家庭的文化，不断传承下去。</section></section></section><section data-id="87470" data-tools="135编辑器" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第二</section><section data-style="text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;color: #666666;" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">培养孩子先让长辈入座，并先给长辈盛饭。敬老是中华民族的传统美德，在孩子小的时候，家长就要做好示范，吃饭时先请家中长辈入座，并先给长辈盛饭。在长辈还未动筷之前，晚辈不应先吃。在家长把碗递给孩子时，孩子应双手把碗接过来，表示对长辈的尊敬。</section></section></section><section data-id="87470" data-tools="135编辑器" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第三</section><section data-style="text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;color: #666666;" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">培养孩子正确地拿筷子。单单是一个用筷子，就可以让一个人显得很有教养，我们老祖宗发明了筷子，一种道具可以用于各种食物，蕴含着深厚的“以不变应万变、以简单应对复杂”的传统文化精髓，这也是我们必须要传承的。https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/AAoNKwfGZQrGQCQyRwPSD5fGicvT0drPQ6pbsgicOH1COulS7ybiciasV56k0jtQkiayaqymxh8aUOaYmJhUDfy1etw.png</section></section></section><section data-id="87470" data-tools="135编辑器" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第四</section><section data-style="text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;color: #666666;" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">避免让孩子在盘中翻来翻去。不要为了挑自己喜欢吃的菜而用勺子或筷子在盘中翻来翻去，有的孩子甚至将自己喜欢的菜全部夹走，而把不好吃的留给别人，这是一种很失礼的行为，并且显得比较自私。</section></section></section><section data-id="87470" data-tools="135编辑器" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第五</section><section data-style="text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;color: #666666;" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">要求孩子不要一边吃饭一边干别的事情。吃饭的时间是一家人聚在一起的时间，也是加强亲子沟通的最佳时间，孩子也会有很多事情想与爸爸妈妈分享，请珍惜这段时间。毕竟在这么繁忙的现代社会，一家人和和美美地、不受任何打扰地在一起吃一顿饭，其实是多么幸福的一件事。</section></section></section><section data-id="87470" data-tools="135编辑器" data-custom="rgb(172, 29, 16)" data-color="rgb(172, 29, 16)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第六</section><section data-style="text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;color: #666666;" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">培养孩子饭后帮助清理餐桌、收拾碗筷或者帮助洗碗的习惯。对大部分家长来说，春节期间，跟家人、客人一起进餐的机会比平时多，而这也是对孩子进行餐桌礼仪教育的极好机会。每个家长都希望孩子获得别人的称赞，所以，家长要从平时就开始关注孩子的餐桌礼仪，这样到了一定的场合，才不会出现一些本不应有的尴尬。https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/AAoNKwfGZQrGQCQyRwPSD5fGicvT0drPQT3GOjVcbAOdN0ugbyibm7vrCuhBum5PAfWUCPSicNOv2vK1Nt8F7XBIg.jpg<section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="87417" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section>吃苦</section></section></section><section data-id="87458" data-tools="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-id="87458" data-tools="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孟子告诫人们：“天将降大任于斯人也，必先苦其心志，劳其筋骨，饿其体肤，空乏其身，行拂乱其所为。”老人们也常说：“小亏不吃吃大亏，小苦不吃吃大苦。“</section></section></section></section></section></section><section data-id="391" data-custom="rgb(216, 40, 33)" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-style="line-height:24px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size:14px" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">就是说，孩子在小时候，吃一点苦、遭遇一些困难，是好事。如果我们怕孩子吃苦，而承担孩子的责任，虽然免掉了孩子的哭闹和纠缠，却剥夺了孩子培养良好品格和发展自我能力的机会，这就是很大的危害了。我们总在说现在的孩子不懂事，可是却不知道是因为我们保护的太好了，不让他们懂事。要想让孩子从小明事理，能为他人着想，体谅父母，就应该从小让孩子吃点苦，让他们识得人间疾苦，懂得珍惜懂得体谅。https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/AAoNKwfGZQrGQCQyRwPSD5fGicvT0drPQPjEA5q9hzfib04MkNbWjxMia2LInb15T4iaZ5IicEBdnlT4QzRgRZtJkyg.jpg</section></section></section><section data-id="87458" data-tools="135编辑器" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="87417" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">吃亏</section></section></section></section><section data-id="391" data-custom="rgb(216, 40, 33)" data-color="rgb(216, 40, 33)" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 微软雅黑; line-height: 25.6px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section data-style="line-height:24px;color:rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size:14px" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">吃亏是福，古今亦然。在现实生活中，许多父母认为，孩子太老实就会吃亏，总是吃亏就无法适应激烈的社会环境，因此许多父母都在教给孩子不吃亏的方法。但是，过于强调不吃亏，孩子不是过于霸道，就是斤斤计较。与人为善，是人格健康发展的前提。作为家长，首先要让孩子发现周围人和事的美好，尊重爱护一花一草，善待每一个人。其次，不要事事争强好胜，让孩子适当吃点亏，心胸才能更加宽广，学会站在他人的角度上思考问题，用宽容化解矛盾。最后，告诉孩子，霸道是一种愚蠢的行为，只会让自己失去人心。教孩子学会吃亏，并不是叫孩子无原则地顺从别人，而是教孩子学会谦让，学会理解和宽容他人，学会以理待人。</section></section></section><strong style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); white-space: pre-wrap; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: 微软雅黑; font-size: 18px; line-height: 28px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-family: monospace; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 41, 65); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; font-family: monospace; font-size: 18px; line-height: 25.6px; text-align: justify; 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