家长的这些话烂在肚子里，也别对孩子说！ ...
<section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1、男子汉大丈夫，至于吗？</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">让孩子学会自由的表达自己的情感非常重要，如果经常对孩子这样讲，最终孩子会成为一个无法自如表达自己情感的人（这样的例子在生活中还少吗？）。</p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXshWPerbxrdsXJRFsFccn1SlbGPGUO4iaRoMQKviaCv5hnDT4AdlKJI3OaRFdFc8Tht3JiaST4ZyeQ8g.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2、这哪是男孩儿/女孩儿应该做的事儿啊！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">不要在孩子探索自己感兴趣的事情的阶段，就武断的对其否定。男孩儿成为一名出色的舞蹈家或是女孩儿成为一名优秀的运动员不好吗？</p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXuTApicJHichqcJicrFt1PRPkjH9MU6LD6QFbslbTHmNyvRs3GxnjwMWQvnOicZSTRvIOdUicQDxq0X5og.png</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3、未来如果你有一个和你一样的孩子，你就明白我的感受了！</span></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这句话听起来好像点儿意思，但是它会让孩子受到极大的伤害。因为这句话的潜台词就是把这个孩子养大的过程并不快乐，而且还蕴含着一种深深的恶意：希望孩子将来遭受同样的痛苦。</p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXvo7N0M4pwGHUo0lQwgOjYrwS67dAnSRkBbASIVTicTJt2SFMgrUDebnPiaEhx9ePWboraOWMOIqC8Q.png</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4、你的妈妈/爸爸是个傻X（或类似）</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">也许她/他真是，但是你不能老是把这样的话挂在嘴边，说给孩子听。而且如果老是听你这么说，孩子就会认为这样评价一位家庭成员是很正常的，同时，孩子潜意识里其实也觉得自己也是一样的人，导致无法接纳自己。</p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXvo7N0M4pwGHUo0lQwgOjYrogmdsicgI9QeViaoVN7a8y0kfQ5xvj5SI6u7hT2fcsBKLAxbtf9eiaHFA.png</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5、你的性格比较内向，而你姐姐/妹妹/哥哥/弟弟/比较外向。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这么说唯一的作用就是让孩子在内向或是外向的路上一条路走到黑，并且觉得自己只能是这个样子。</p></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXvzHNIib1RbtHSZHNt2lB0DjZib92ws5t3P4uMb8k9MLhqquNgxnZDbwt7NRzkSThVv9otlp2ysG1dQ.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">6、有本事你就一直哭，我看你哭到什么时候！</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样一来，孩子就会感受到你不愿意再与他进行交流。无力和恐惧感会让他/她持续难过下去，而这已经和最初为了什么而哭无关。最好的方式是告诉孩子我看到了你的难过/委屈.....，你的陪伴、平静和同理很重要。</p></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXs9mQQhNM2ezb6B3mZHJ6UiaoPacOweGQK5RmpTibbMW7DpadTc37iaNumcQueEtsBrCmLhuEfrxibnnQ.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7、为什么你没有一件事能做好！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">每个人都是从试错当中积累经验的，你这样一说，孩子就没有勇气去尝试，当然就会进步的很慢了。</p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXtGibN5Zuh4sfUOurX4YjCKyh0xs9exyhehHSQJjqSR01hLzLA4JqdQ8rXz6oeUldADddvHP0icuxcg.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">8、这就是你不听话的后果！</span></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在你告诉孩子不要跑，结果他/她还是在跑而且摔倒了的时候，你可能会这么想。但是如果你这么和孩子说了，那就是白白浪费了一次他/她可以获得体验成长的机会。</p></section><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXu3nAT08Q7g8vCGwMdEDEyPTfiaZc76Z3D12CGyPib97JOIZxLsRuYtSts3Cbfylu7sx9HvP8J7psBw.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">9、我数学也不好，这孩子随我</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">得了，有了你这句话，孩子的数学是好不了了。</p></section></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/YBd5S9XghXuRztHmSlZSZVNr8NvbdEHGkSN6CMm0fweCCnRTia1GjueBzQkkrNgdIE1ghdpicqUYmE3eFFFzNyyg.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">10、怎么能这样做，你是一个坏孩子</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></p><p></p><section data-id="85997" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">相信大多数家长不会和孩子说这句话。在孩子真的犯了错误，并且理应被教育和纠正的时候。你要告诉孩子的是，这件事情是坏的，这种行为是错误的，人不等于行为，家长无法接受的是事情，而不是无法接受自己的孩子</p></section></section><p></p><p data-id="86250" style="line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal;"><span style="line-height: 25.6px; color: rgb(165, 165, 165); font-size: 10px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></span></p><p data-id="86250" style="line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal;"><span style="line-height: 25.6px; color: rgb(165, 165, 165); font-size: 10px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">我们致力于保护作者版权，因无法核实真实出处，如涉及侵权，请联系我们删除</span><span style="line-height: 25.6px; color: rgb(165, 165, 165); font-size: 12px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">！</span></p> 这个问题真的是令人头疼呢！
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