【家长交流】人民日报：教育改革要从家长教育开始
<section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-size: 16px; line-height: 25.6px; white-space: normal; font-family: 微软雅黑; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88286" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -4px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(239, 239, 239);"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">大家对教育不满，主要体现在哪里？无非是孩子们出了问题，即现在的学生脆弱，抗挫折能力差,动辄离家出走，或者轻生；只知道做题，创造力差，解决实际问题能力差；太自私，团结协作能力不足，等等。这些,归根结底还是做人的问题。</p></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">家长是孩子的第一任老师，也是最重要的老师，但目前中国家长在这方面是严重缺失的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">家教是什么？是家长对孩子的言传身教，往往体现在非智力因素方面。</strong>比如感恩、尊重别人、基本的规矩等等，其实就是让孩子成为一个合格的社会人。孩子成为一个什么样的人，在某种程度上，首先取决于父母。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但遗憾的是，家长们对此几乎没有太多的重视，更谈不上正确的教育理念、人才观念。</strong>一谈到家教，就变成了花钱请老师教文化课，而不是家长的身体力行。中国家长在孩子的教育上很舍得花钱，不惜砸锅卖铁，却忘记了自己的责任与付出。更有甚者，一些权贵和富有人群，用金钱换责任，在孩子很小的时候，花巨资让孩子一个人出国留学，表面上为孩子做出贡献，实则是不负责任。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一旦孩子出现问题，我们经常是指责学校、社会，而不是反思自己。</strong>当我们控诉应试教育的时候，我们是否反思自己也是一个积极的推动者？是否逼迫孩子报了很多的辅导班？当我们指责社会无序时，我们是否给孩子做出了表率？</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果不是从事专门研究工作，那么，在学校学的知识大部分都会遗忘，但是，协作、感恩、创造力、想象力、忍耐力、反省能力等等，最终会沉淀下来，而在这些教育方面，家长可以也应该发挥更大的作用。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">美国的教育制度与理念并不完美，在美国，因为教育理念原因，家长不满意，有大约260万学生是在家上学的。在美国前10名大学中，有7%来自此类学生。家长们在以自己的力量去做调整，修正对美国教育的不满。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">世界上没有一种教育制度与理念是完美的，美国也同样。</strong>大家觉得，中国教育目前问题很多，政府、社会舆论都在反省、检讨，试图解决这个问题，很多中国专家动辄讲美国教育如何如何好。的确，美国的教育在理念上、方法上，都有其先进的东西，有值得汲取的地方，但是，我觉得，在借鉴美国经验的同时，中国家长应当首先补上家庭教育这一课；教育改革，首先应当从改变家长入手，让家长们明白自己的责任，树立正确的人才观，真正懂得如何引导孩子成长成才。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">从世界角度来说，对于培养一个优秀的人，理念、做法其实没有本质的差别，</strong>比如付出，比如严格的规范与要求，待人友善、懂得感恩等等。因此，我们不需要动辄讲美国，而是应当先把本民族优秀的教育观念继承下来，把正确的家庭教育理念发扬光大。家长到位，正确的理念到位，中国的教育问题才会有根本性的改变。（马振翼）</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88286" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -4px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(239, 239, 239);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">七种情况，造成家长对教育不上心</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1、认为孩子教育是学校的事情，与自己教育不教育关系不大；</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2、认为自己忙，身心憔悴，无暇顾及孩子的学习，心力不足；</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3、认为家庭教育是空洞理论，是听起来好听，用起来不管用；</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4、认为树大自然直，对孩子放任之流，顺其自然，过问不多；</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5、认为家庭教育就是学习的教育，学习的教育就是做作业，上补习班；</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">6、认为家庭教育就是让孩子们上各种辅导班，音乐、美术、弹钢琴等。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7、认为家庭教育就是提要求，至于怎么学习，不知道，也不愿意探究。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">其实，家庭教育就是孩子生命成长的教育，就是让孩子们萌生会学习，善于学习，会生活，善于生活，会相处，善于相处的意识，并乐于去实践和探究。家庭教育，就是对“根”的教育，“心灵”的教育，只有“根壮”“心灵好”，状态好，才能“枝粗叶肥”，这恰是“庄稼养根，育人养心”！</p></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">处于今天的信息时代，我们的家长不学习，很难教育好孩子。因为身处急功近利的时代，很多人心浮气躁，跟着社会思潮走，被大众化思潮裹挟，缺乏理性思考，和长远的眼光。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="88286" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: -4px; padding: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(239, 239, 239);"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那么怎样做一名优秀的家长呢？可以针对以下，看看自己是什么样的家长？</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第一层次：舍得给孩子花钱。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第二层次：舍得为孩子花时间。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第三层次：家长开始思考教育的目标问题。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第四层次：家长为了教育孩子而提升和完善自己。</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第五层次：父母尽己所能支持鼓励孩子成为最好的自己，也以身作则支持孩子成为真正的自己。</p></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">家庭教育的重要性毋庸置疑。</strong>但是老师的作用也很重要，老师、家长、孩子究竟要怎么配合才能达到更好的教育效果呢？以下27条铁规律告诉您！</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><section class="" data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="38806" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px none; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-bottom-width: 4px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(170, 166, 149); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-bcless="darken" style="margin-bottom: -5px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; border-bottom-width: 8px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-color: rgb(120, 116, 97); font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px; display: inline-block; color: inherit; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; border-color: rgb(170, 166, 149); color: rgb(170, 166, 149); font-size: 18px; line-height: 1.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(147, 137, 83); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong class="" data-brushtype="text" style="max-width: 100%; border-color: rgb(170, 166, 149); color: inherit; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">老师、家长、孩子都要知道的中国27条教育铁律！</strong></span></p></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1、影响孩子成绩的主要因素不是学校，而是家庭。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">2、如果家庭教育出了问题，孩子在学校就可能会过的比较辛苦，孩子很可能会成为学校的“问题儿童”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3、成绩好的孩子，妈妈通常是有计划而且动作利落的人。父亲越认真，越有条理，越有礼貌，孩子成绩就越好。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4、贫穷是重要的教育资源，但并非越贫穷越有利于孩子的成长。做父母的，需要为孩子提供基本的文化资料，不让孩子陷入人穷志短的自卑深渊。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5、富裕是另一种更高级的教育资源，西方人的经验是：“培育一个贵族需要三代人的努力。”“阶层是会遗传的。”但是，更高级的教育资源需要有更高级的教育技艺，如果没有更高级的教育技艺，富裕的家庭反而会给孩子的成长带来灾难。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">6、不要做有知识没文化的家长。有些人有高学历，但不见得有文化。如果家长不懂得生活，不知道善待他人，甚至不懂得善待自己的孩子，无论他拥有多高的学术水平，他也是没有文化的人。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7、父母可以把孩子作为世界的中心，但是不要忘了，父母也要过独立的生活。如果父母完全围绕孩子转而没有了自己的生活主题，这样的父母常常会以爱的名义干扰孩子的成长。有时侯，并不是孩子离不开父母，而是父母离不开孩子。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">8、父母需要承担教育孩子的责任，不过，也不要因为教育孩子而完全取消了自己的休闲生活。“没有责任感伤害别人，太有责任感伤害自己。”（吴稼祥语）</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">9、如果孩子一哭闹父母就赶紧承诺，那么，孩子就会利用父母的这个特点经常纠缠父母，提出更多的要求。所以，孩子哭闹，不要着急答应孩子要求，父母最好让自己有事情做，让孩子看着自己动作麻利地做事。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">10、<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">夫<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 22.4px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">妻关系影响孩子的性格。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">夫一个男人如果不尊重他的妻子，那么，他的儿子就学会了在学校不尊重他的女同学。一个女人如果不尊重她的丈夫，那么，她的女儿就学会了在学校瞧不起她的男同学。</span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">11、</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">教育就是培育人的精神长相。</strong><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">家长和教师的使命就是让孩子逐步对自己的精神长相负责任，去掉可能沾染的各种污秽，培育人身上的精神“种子”，让人可以呼吸高山空气，让人可以扬眉吐气。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">12、<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有修养的父母是“伏尔泰主义者”，“我不同意你的观点，但我誓死捍卫你说话的权利”。</strong>他们从孩子出生的那天就开始跟孩子讲道理，耐心的征求孩子的意见。不要指望打骂孩子就能让孩子学会服从。杀鸡给猴看的结果是：猴子也学会了杀鸡。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">13、<strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">让孩子成为既有激情又有理智的人。</strong>“没有激情，任何伟业都不可能善始，没有理智，任何壮举都不能善终。”</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">14、让你的孩子成为有教养的人，有教养从守时，排队，在公共场合不大声说话，不轻易发怒开始。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">https://www.9axl.com/./data/attachment/forum/wx/N4Mq0UjqqG80AxZ0EgYD9IcKic5JwLPCKPcSibDcooSFvj7xGUAASk2wEH2dib2JmxpYYtTb5nia2H2Pdpf1tpCbiaw.jpg</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">15、做人要厚道。如果你的孩子比较厚道，请不要嘲笑他的软弱。喜欢占小便宜的人，往往吃大亏，因为他被别人厌恶。愿意吃小亏的人，将来会占大便宜，因为他被人喜欢。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">16、身体的活力能够带来精神的活力。身体好的人，性格阳光。身体不好的人，做事犹犹豫豫，躲躲闪闪，说话吞吞吐吐。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">17、如果没有特别困难，父母最好每天赶回家和孩子一起进餐。家庭的共同价值观，就在全家人围着一张桌子吃饭的过程中建立起来。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">18、如果你的孩子在15岁的时候喜欢弗罗斯特的诗句：“两条路在树林里分岔，我选择走人少的那一条”，这很正常，不要担心，他以后也许会选择人走的多的那一条。<span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 25.6px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">19、人的一生充满了大量的暗恋。如果孩子暗恋某个异性，请不要嘲笑他。“暗恋是世界上最美丽的爱情。”（苏格拉底语）</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">20、父母给孩子讲道理是必要的，但给15岁前后的孩子讲道理时，要注意自己讲话的姿态，姿态比道理更重要。否则，孩子会厌恶，反抗。孩子会说：你讲的话都是对的，但你讲话的那个样子很令人讨厌。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">21、心底秘密是人成长，成熟的标志。如果孩子有心事，他不想告诉你，那么，不要逼迫孩子把他的秘密说出来。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">22、必须留意你的孩子的学习成绩，但也不必太在意他的名次。倒是需要警惕那些学习成绩总是第一名的孩子。有些孩子学习成绩好，性格也好，有些孩子学习成绩很好，但性格却自私，缺乏同情心，没有生活情趣。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">23、必须让你的孩子学会与他人交往并愉快的接受小伙伴。“如果父母对自己的邻居不满，对孩子的小伙伴也十分挑剔，或者不让自己的孩子和他们交朋友，让孩子觉得好像自己跟别人很不一样，那么，这些孩子长大以后就很难与任何人自然地相处。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">24、孩子的成长需要同伴，让孩子有自己的朋友，但不要有太杂乱的伙伴，在孩子没有形成成熟的理性和判断里之前，警惕孩子沾染同伴的坏习惯。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">25、让你的孩子尽早建立健康的审美观。有出息的男性一定会喜欢健康的女性。不要让孩子的审美观陷入低级，病态。不要以为小的，有病的，就是好的。不要以为强大的，就都是坏的。不要以为小麻雀，小绵羊，小狗都是可爱的，也不要以为狮子，老虎，狼都是坏的。不要以为豺狼都是吃人的，豺狼只吃比他弱小的。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">26、《麦田里的守望者》为世界贡献了一个词语：守望。教育不是管，也不是不管。在管与不管之间，有一个词语叫“守望”。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">27、告诉你的孩子：认真听讲的孩子偶尔成绩好，认真自学的孩子永远成绩好!</span></p></section><p></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p></p><p></p><section label="Copyright2015 Yead All Rights Reserved." style="max-width: 100%; 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