话题|家长们看过来！关于攀比教育的5个危害你知道吗？
<section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 70%;padding-right: 4px;padding-left: 18px;box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;text-align: center;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;width: 1.6em;margin-right: -0.8em;box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="border-radius: 5px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: bottom;border-color: rgb(255, 202, 0);border-bottom-style: dashed;border-bottom-width: 1px;padding-right: 20px;padding-left: 20px;line-height: 1.4;color: rgb(255, 202, 0);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">点击蓝字，<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">关注我们</span></p></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(110, 110, 110);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">每一次的成长，关关都想与你同在</p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 30%;padding-right: 18px;padding-left: 4px;box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="transform: rotateZ(6deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(6deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(6deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(6deg);box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 3px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;border-width: 1px;border-radius: 0px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);width: 100%;box-shadow: rgb(110, 110, 110) 0px 0px 3px;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 20px 0%;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 95%;vertical-align: top;box-shadow: rgb(158, 158, 158) 0px 0px 4px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-bottom: -7px;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 12px 0% 8px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(120, 144, 156);padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">教育不应是大人之间的攀比</p><p style="text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;">而是让孩子做最好的自己</p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">教育的方法是多样的，家长只要<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">遵循教育规律，结合自身经济条件，选择孩子真正感兴趣和需要的，孩子都会有所收获。</strong></span>如果仅仅是因为相互攀比的心理，将孩子的教育变成一场竞赛，那才会给孩子带来真正的伤害。</p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;color: rgb(32, 124, 228);letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">以下这5种对孩子的伤害，都是家长们在教育中一味地攀比所造成的。</strong></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 16%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="border-width: 3px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(149, 216, 247);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 3em;height: 3em;line-height: 2.6em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-right: -1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">01</strong></p></section><section style="width: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-left: 8px solid rgb(149, 216, 247);border-top: 5px solid transparent;border-bottom: 5px solid transparent;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 80%;background-color: rgb(189, 221, 244);padding: 5px 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">给孩子造成沉重的心理负担</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">王女士喜欢炫耀孩子的成绩。每逢聚会，必提孩子的成绩，考好了自然是要自夸一番，顺便教育教育那些读书不好的。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">临近高考，王女士当着孩子面放下豪言，我家孩子，考个985重点，绝对没问题。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">话都没捂热，就出了事。每逢模拟考试，孩子就出现奇怪的症状，冒冷汗，手抖，腹痛不止。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">到医院一检查，发现孩子是由心理原因引起的胃痉挛，药物只能缓解不能根治。王女士这才反应过来，再没提过孩子的成绩，又安抚又勉励。孩子的病情有所缓解，但高考还是没能发挥出正常水平。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">总拿孩子和别人攀比的父母，是为了在对比中获得优越感，以满足自己的虚荣心。但对孩子而言，恰恰成了沉重的心理负担。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 16%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="border-width: 3px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(149, 216, 247);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 3em;height: 3em;line-height: 2.6em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-right: -1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">02</p></section><section style="width: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-left: 8px solid rgb(149, 216, 247);border-top: 5px solid transparent;border-bottom: 5px solid transparent;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 80%;background-color: rgb(189, 221, 244);padding: 5px 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">攀比心理会投射到孩子身上</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">有这样一则新闻，讲的是某地小学生之间，需要验证商场购衣小票，证明穿的是名牌，才能一起玩。而这种拿购物小票来换取友谊的现象并非个例。</span></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">许多家长认为不能让孩子委屈吃亏，得尽最大可能为他提供好的物质条件。大约就是，别人有什么，我们必须有什么；别人没有什么，我们可能还有……</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">孩子未来要面临很多诱惑，但因为家长的攀比心理而让孩子提前陷入“诱惑”的例子却比比皆是。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">在孩子身上父母无需一切都要最贵的；也不要为了所谓的面子不惜血本，只给孩子最好的。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 16%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="border-width: 3px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(149, 216, 247);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 3em;height: 3em;line-height: 2.6em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-right: -1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">03</p></section><section style="width: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-left: 8px solid rgb(149, 216, 247);border-top: 5px solid transparent;border-bottom: 5px solid transparent;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 80%;background-color: rgb(189, 221, 244);padding: 5px 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">让孩子丧失创造力</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">美国儿科学会有一项研究，认为“自由玩耍会让孩子变得更具有创造性”。但很多父母为了让自己孩子出类拔萃，各种辅导班兴趣班给孩子报了一大堆，最终，只会让孩子失去了对学习的兴趣。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></span></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">每个孩子都是独一无二的，你不知道你的攀比，会给孩子带来多大的伤害！</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 16%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="border-width: 3px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(149, 216, 247);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 3em;height: 3em;line-height: 2.6em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-right: -1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">04</p></section><section style="width: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-left: 8px solid rgb(149, 216, 247);border-top: 5px solid transparent;border-bottom: 5px solid transparent;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 80%;background-color: rgb(189, 221, 244);padding: 5px 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">让孩子变得更物质</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">随着家庭条件越来越优越，现在的家长对孩子都非常宠爱，孩子要什么，父母就会给什么。谁不心疼自己的孩子，谁甘愿让自己的孩子落后于别人呢？</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">如果家长没有自己的原则，<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">这种攀比教育方式不仅会给家庭增添巨大的压力负担，还会让小小年纪的孩子变得越来越物质化。</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 16%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;text-align: center;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="border-width: 3px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(149, 216, 247);display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-radius: 100%;background-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 3em;height: 3em;line-height: 2.6em;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);margin-right: -1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">05</p></section><section style="width: 0px;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;border-left: 8px solid rgb(149, 216, 247);border-top: 5px solid transparent;border-bottom: 5px solid transparent;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 80%;background-color: rgb(189, 221, 244);padding: 5px 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">让孩子失去自信</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">每个孩子都有着自己独特的个性和发展潜质，一味地将孩子进行攀比，要求孩子与他人保持一致，会限制孩子的个性发展，进而影响孩子的自信心。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">想要孩子在复杂的环境下还能有自信，有勇气地去追求自己的人生，那么家长要做好榜样，控制自己的消费习惯，勿盲目的去攀比。<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">活在当下，不卑不亢，才是给孩子做出的最好示范。</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="line-height: 2;color: rgb(32, 124, 228);letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box;">家长们应该怎样杜绝自己攀比的思想，让孩子更健康快乐地成长呢</span></strong><strong style="letter-spacing: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">？</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(229, 168, 183);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">首先，父母们应该改变自己的态度，要尊重孩子。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">父母们要相信，<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">每一个孩子生来都是不一样的，更要相信自己的孩子有着不同于其他人的天赋</strong></span>，自己的职责只是去发现他们的天赋，因此学会尊重孩子是最基础的，尊重孩子的爱好，尊重孩子的选择，尊重孩子的隐私和天赋，给孩子一个舒适的、健康的成长环境，孩子们才能找到自己的真正兴趣并把它变成自己的特长。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(229, 168, 183);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">其次，父母们要善于发现和欣赏自己孩子的与众不同。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">父母们一定要清晰认识到的一点就是，<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">绝对不能指望自己的孩子在每一个方面都优于同龄人</strong></span>，天才存在，但绝对是少数，所以，与其想着要把自己的孩子变成能让自己骄傲的天才，不如学着做一个能为平凡孩子骄傲的父母吧，去发现和欣赏自己孩子的与众不同，去为孩子的小成就开心，这就已经够了。</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(229, 168, 183);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">再者，父母们要学会鼓励孩子成长为独特而优秀的人。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">父母的鼓励对孩子的影响是不言而喻的</strong></span>，“<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">行行出状元</strong></span>”这句话是有道理的，父母们既然爱孩子，就应该去相信自己的孩子总会在某一方面表现出天赋，不是只有科学家音乐家才是孩子最大的成就，父母们要做的，是去发现自己孩子的天赋，即使并不那么耀眼，<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">也鼓励孩子去努力，最终成长为独特而优秀的人。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">2017年，在江苏卫视的一档节目中，小男孩吴耀杰自弹自唱的一首《我只是个孩子啊》让很多成年人落泪。在这首歌中，吴耀杰用边说边唱的抒情方式，把“压力山大”的现代小朋友的内心都唱出来了：“隔壁邻居小明期末又考了第一，王大妈的孙女钢琴她过了10级，我爸战友的儿子一口流利的英语，我妈同事的女儿有深厚的舞蹈功底，听到这些消息，我只能默默不语……”</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">吴耀杰在歌中说，爸妈的期待，其实孩子都知道，但是只是<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“为什么要和别人比”？</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">《人民日报》发表评论说，今天的孩子，无疑是幸福的，生活条件、学习条件都较以往更为优越，但今天的孩子，<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">也无疑是辛苦的。</strong></span></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">随着竞争压力增大，为了让孩子不输在起跑线上，家长们不愿等，用各种兴趣班、补习班、假期游学将孩子的业余时间填得过满。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">久而久之，<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">家长们的攀比，成了孩子们辛苦奔波的理由；成人世界的期待与生存法则，成了推动孩子疾行的动力。</strong></span></p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">于是，走着走着，突然发现已经忘记了尊重孩子<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">成长的规律与节奏</strong></span>，让孩子真的像个孩子，让童年真的称得上童年。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">走着走着，突然发现已经忘记了尊重孩子<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">生命个体的独特性与唯一性</strong></span>，忘记了教育的初衷不是为了满足大人的成就感，而应帮助每个孩子成为最好的自己。</p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="text-indent: 2em;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">走着走着，突然发现<span style="color: rgb(32, 124, 228);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">牵着孩子走得太急、太远，竟然忘记了当初为什么出发</strong></span>。教育，究竟从哪儿出发，又该去往何方？</p><p style="white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 12px;color: rgba(162, 158, 158, 0.95);box-sizing: border-box;">来源：成都教育发布</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;background-image: url("http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/KjfBh1Mn13Wamz36arS82h8GXe4n8TKzNvRzASPmfJJ55g6I5uIwhvjdptVzJWrjRwpiccY38jlrcdOkUdvOz7w/640?wx_fmt=gif");background-position: 0% 0%;background-repeat: repeat;background-size: 30.8235%;background-attachment: scroll;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-top: 40px;margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 60%;vertical-align: top;border-style: none;border-width: 0px;border-radius: 0px;border-color: rgb(5, 5, 5);box-shadow: rgba(248, 248, 248, 0) 0px 0px 0px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-top: -70px;margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;width: 100%;box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;padding: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 10px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 50%;padding-right: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="color: rgb(235, 137, 137);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">成都关工委</p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 50%;padding-left: 5px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin-right: 0%;margin-left: 0%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 10px;color: rgb(235, 137, 137);line-height: 1.6;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">成都市</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">关心下一代基金会</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="font-size: 14px;line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">长按识别二维码关注我们</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">为孩子撑起一个世界</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section> 这个问题确实存在，也遇到过！ 谢谢楼主，说的有道理！ 楼主真是好人，东西很有价值！ 谢谢楼主，说的有道理！ 这个问题真的是令人头疼呢！
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