话题|家长陪作业，陪得出心梗，陪不出学霸
<section style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">寒假模式已经开启，在每天陪做家庭作业这一艰巨任务上，家长们得到了暂时性的解脱。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: left;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“我做错了什么，要陪孩子写作业”</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“上海爸爸陪娃写作业气到崩溃，当场管亲生儿子叫‘爷叔’”</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: left;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“辅导儿子写作业到五年级，心梗住院做了两个支架”</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">这些文章在网络爆红，每次都能瞬间点燃家长悲愤的小宇宙。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">有调查显示，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">中国<span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);font-size: 21px;box-sizing: border-box;">91.2%</span>的家长有过陪孩子写作业的经历，坚持每天陪写的家长高达<span style="font-size: 21px;color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;">78%</span>。</strong><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);font-size: 21px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">75.79%</strong></span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">的家庭曾因“陪写作业”产生亲子矛盾。</strong>不少家庭反映，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">陪写作业降低了生活幸福感。</strong>上班、陪作业无缝衔接，家长们感到身心俱疲，<span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(222, 49, 21, 0.972549);box-sizing: border-box;">“就像每天都打两份工”。</span></strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;overflow: hidden !important;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">事实上，在作业问题上为难的不只有家长，让父母抓狂的孩子同样压力山大，留作业的老师更是有苦难言。<span style="color: rgb(255, 76, 65);"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">作业牵绊住了家长、学生、老师三大人群的喜怒哀乐。</strong></span></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">此事每次提基本都会吵成一团：</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;text-align: justify;"><section class="" style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-left-color: rgb(160, 160, 160);border-right-color: rgb(160, 160, 160);padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我一个80后，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">从小就没人陪我写过作业，也一样考上了北大。</strong>为什么现在的家长这么累？真该好好反思一下了！</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我女儿写作业我们两口子从来没陪过，她什么都自己做，非常优秀。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">家长应该学会放手，毕竟以后的路需要孩子自己走。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">有的家长是自己把自己搞得很累，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">望子成龙心切，</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">老师没要求也要坐在一边看着，</strong>让孩子有种作业也有家长的份儿的错觉，依赖性很强，自我管理能力很差。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">真正的学霸有几个是家长陪作业陪出来的？</strong>反而都是家长很少管的。由此可见，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">最重要的是培养孩子的自我管理能力</strong>，而不是越俎代庖地陪作业陪进医院！</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">说没必要陪写作业的都没有正在上学的孩子吧？</strong>你去看看现在老师都怎么留作业！我们小时候，作业都是老师口述，顶多写黑板上，现在呢？<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">由老师直接发在家长群里</strong>——我也是纳了闷了，给孩子留的作业却发给家长是个什么操作啊？</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">做50道100以内加减法题、办一张“一带一路”手抄报、听写、口算、情景对话、奥数……这是小学二年级的作业，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">请问二年级小学生能一个人完成的吗？</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">有的家长从来都是自己看电视、玩手机，</strong>却希望孩子能回家就主动写作业、好好学习，恕我直言，可能性不能说没有，但极小。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">作为老师，我们布置的作业也是能够促进家长与孩子交流，增进彼此的感情，更好地培养孩子良好的性格、习惯，培养他们的自主能力的，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">家长想要孩子好就应该多付出点，这不很正常吗？</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">学校压下来的教学任务繁重，家长才判了一份作业就暴躁得变身了，我们每天要判几十份作业——<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">并不是让家长判了作业我们老师就没事做了，</strong>我们一样还是要判很多作业！<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">我们孩子的作业太多了，老师家长孩子都是被裹挟着前行的。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">现在提倡素质教育，对培养孩子的要求越来越高了，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">跟80后90后小时候不一样了，</strong>就得多学，就得家长多投入精力进来，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">我们老师投入得也不少。</strong></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">老师不是教学的独立个体，很多时候我们只是学校制定的规章制度的执行者，如果可以，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">我们比你们更想简简单单搞教学</strong>，真是哑巴吃黄莲。</span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">要我说，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">是现在的教育跑偏了。</strong>学校教育应该多往孩子身上使劲儿，让他们自己能hold住更多的东西，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">而不是变着法儿地拉上家长。</strong>说实话，你让我爸坐我旁边看着我，我也得啥都不会写啊！</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;">近几年，因为家庭作业产生的亲子矛盾抑或是家长和班主任意见不合的新闻不时见诸报端。</p><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">陪作业得心梗，到底怪家长不放手还是怪老师甩责任？</strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><br/></p><p style="text-align: center;white-space: normal;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 76, 65);">对此，你怎么看？</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="background-color: rgb(160, 160, 160);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160);box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">图片来源于网络</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">执行主编：何晏</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">编辑：苏娅</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;">作者：彭康正</span></p></section></section></section></section> 现在的家长真难当啊！ 楼主真是好人，东西很有价值！ 这个问题真的是令人头疼呢！ 现在的家长真难当啊！
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