【话题】：家长：“我们啥都干，要老师干啥？”
<section style="box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">最近，一篇家长怒斥老师的帖子火了。帖子里的家长说，现如今，家长帮孩子做作业，检查作业，似乎已经成了天经地义理所当然无可厚非的事！<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">家长啥都干，要老师干啥？</strong></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">然而帖子一出，不少有相似经历的家长马上力挺。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="border-top-width: 10px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(164, 214, 215); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; margin-top: -20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, rgb(241, 241, 241), rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)); background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">李小妹啊 ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">家长更多的是在生活中潜移默化中教给孩子书本里学不到的东西。而老师的职责便是教书育人。家长花钱把孩子送去幼儿园、学校，却天天要配合老师完成各项工作：今天准备纸箱做手工、明天要一包彩色吸管、后天准备才艺和父母一起去表演……更让我费解的是现在为什么很多学校老师要把作业发给学生家长，家长还有微信群。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">我们80、90后自己上了多少年学都是自己记作业，自己写，怎么现在的孩子作业也记不下来么？</strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">小小 ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">配合教学活动可以，但是要选择适合孩子年龄阶段的活动！我的亲身经历就是，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">孩子在幼儿园中班时，老师要求完成电能转换成动能或热能的实验教具 ！</strong>孩子完全不理解这个原理，家长们更多的则是去买一个成品电动小风车之类的玩具上交。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">孩子不懂，家长嫌麻烦，完全没有亲子互动的过程，也失去了教育意义。</strong></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">听说名字太短不习惯-_- ：</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">五岁的表弟读幼儿园大班，国庆作业竟然是让家长教他用英语讲故事，到时候要上台讲，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">舅舅舅妈完全没学过英语，问老师怎么办，老师说一天教一句就好，能学会的。</strong>家长都不会，怎么教孩子？我无语。</p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;">贾红 ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">孩子刚上一年级，就要在网上做各种题，下载速算盒子，还要办手抄报，参加书法竞赛。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">一天下来，使尽了浑身解数都不行，</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">还得让晚托班老师一齐上阵，</strong>孩子没事，我们都累得够呛。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">莹莹： </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">现在提倡家校共育，可是老师每次都是在QQ上发一下，等家长看到已经很晚了，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">而且每次都是明天就要！</strong>手工有几个是家长孩子共同参与的？大部分都是孩子睡着后家长熬夜完成！这样的作业有什么用？这不是纯粹给家长的作业吗？<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">这样的家校共育起不到作用！</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">除了这些言辞相对比较激烈的家长，也有些家长婉转地表示，这确实对自己的生活造成了困扰。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="border-top-width: 10px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(164, 214, 215); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; margin-top: -20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, rgb(241, 241, 241), rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)); background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">青椒牛柳 ：</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">很多家长被“家长群”困扰着，总是担心错过群里消息，耽误孩子什么事。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">微信本来是个社交软件，不应该成为家长的精神负担。</strong>在不影响工作、生活的前提下进行适当交流，既有利于孩子成长，又有利于家长老师互相沟通。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">甚至有些“躺枪”的旁观者也忍不住站出来说话了。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="border-top-width: 10px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(164, 214, 215); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; margin-top: -20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, rgb(241, 241, 241), rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)); background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">朗朗晨星烁 ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">现在的手抄报，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">已经从最开始的真正手绘的手抄报，变成了要求“正规排版，新颖插图，彩色打印”。</strong>试问提出这类要求的老师，如果家长文化水平不够不会电脑，或者家里经济条件有限没有电脑、打印机怎么办？不上学了吗？ <strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">作为工作单位中的年轻人，基本上办公室同事孩子这类课外作业都是我完成的，从手抄报、手工作业到假期生活汇报视频全是我一手打造。</strong>不能不说如果这就是老师要的家庭教育，它除了给家长增加负担，真的没有其他意义。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">还有家长表示，现在的教育让人越来越看不懂。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="border-top-width: 10px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(164, 214, 215); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(27, 76, 108);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; margin-top: -20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, rgb(241, 241, 241), rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)); background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;"><section class="" style="padding: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">Yolanda ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">不知道为何现在的教育成了这个样子。作为一个85后，我所接受的教育很单纯，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">老师敬业地上课，学生认真地听课、做作业，家长放养，不问学业。</strong>那时候我们的县一中，每年也能出两三个清华北大的。每个班也有那么十来个进985的。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">反观现在的教育，学生、家长、老师没一个不精疲力尽的，最后还落得互相埋怨。</strong>好忧桑……已经不知道该如何教育我的娃了……</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">然而家长这么说，也有人持不同看法。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, white, rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)) rgb(241, 241, 241);"><section class="" style="padding: 10px 10px 20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">St★Tail ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">作为一名小学一年级老师，我们也体谅家长工作一天后，还要回家辅导孩子，确实累。可是，一年级正是习惯养成的关键时期，孩子们从幼儿园步入小学，各种不良习惯都需要纠正。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">孩子在校时间远远赶不上在家里时间，在校好不容易被纠正的习惯，如果回家家长不配合，就会毁于一旦。</strong>就拿检查作业来说，课上老师会留出自己检查作业的时间，而且会一遍遍强调，领着他们自己检查作业，但是回家后，若家长置之不理，久而久之，孩子们就会觉得检查作业是为了应付老师，装装样子就可以，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">这种家校双重标准，对孩子的成长是十分不利的。</strong></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">柠檬℃ ：</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">家长是孩子第一任也是最好的老师，学校教育是一部分，但是家长在孩子整个成长过程中起的作用绝对不容忽视。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">部分家长只忙于谋生，把孩子丢给老师，忽视了与孩子的相处。</strong>在孩子成长道路上，有良好的家庭教育做基础才能更好地接受学校教育。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">老师布置的任务能够促进家长与孩子的交流，增进彼此的感情，更好地培养孩子良好的性格。</strong></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">Ronsire ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">老师不是教学的独立个体，很多时候我们只是学校制定的规章制度的执行者，</strong>如果可以，我们也想简简单单搞教学，真是哑巴吃黄莲，有苦说不出。</p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">树懒 ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">老师的教育只是一部分，好的教育应该是家长和老师共同付出，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">很多家长不是过分溺爱，就是只给孩子钱，自己当甩手掌柜。</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: 10px; border-bottom-width: 10px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(239, 128, 23); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(148, 146, 147);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(148, 146, 147);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">有着亲身体验的老师们也是很苦恼。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, white, rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)) rgb(241, 241, 241);"><section class="" style="padding: 10px 10px 20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">A0阿哈阿瓜和阿花：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">师范生大四刚刚实习回来，亲眼看着家长找到学校跟老师吵架。我相信这只是个别现象，可是<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">孩子就是家长的缩影。</strong>家长要求老师孤军奋战在每天7个小时相处时间里给孩子传授极多的知识，培养极好的性格品质，还要收获足够的快乐，我只能很遗憾的说：恐怕给不了。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">家长对孩子是有养育责任的，只养不育是不行的，育错了方向也是不行的。</strong>孩子是老师的更是家长的，互相理解，目标一致才是关键。</p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">敏敏：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">现在的很多孩子说不得、碰不得，给老师的教育带来了极大挑战，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">导致孩子出现问题的最根本原因还是在于家长的溺爱。</strong></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: 10px; border-bottom-width: 10px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(239, 128, 23); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(148, 146, 147);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(148, 146, 147);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">还有家长明确表示赞同老师的做法。</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background: -webkit-linear-gradient(bottom, white, rgba(255, 247, 234, 0)) rgb(241, 241, 241);"><section class="" style="padding: 10px 10px 20px; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">猫咪不吃鱼：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">我支持老师。家长配合教学工作，有利于家长掌握孩子的学习情况，在互动过程中也可以促进亲子感情。而且家长配合还可以减少老师非必须的工作，老师可以更合理地分配时间，使教学工作更有效率<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">。</strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">那些配合其实并不难，只要家长舍得多放下手机几分钟，就可以和孩子更进一步地相处。</strong></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></span></p><p style="text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">非黑非白：</span></p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">我是老师，但是我更是父母，我不会把我的孩子完全寄托于老师身上，自己的责任是无法推卸的。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">老师不是保姆，不是万能战士，明白父母自身的责任，不逃避不推卸，才能为子女打造一个良好的未来。</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="margin-top: -30px; margin-bottom: 10px; border-bottom-width: 10px; border-bottom-style: solid; border-bottom-color: rgb(239, 128, 23); box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: left; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(148, 146, 147);"></section><section style="width: 10px; height: 20px; float: right; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(148, 146, 147);"></section><section style="clear: both; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">公说公有理婆说婆有理。大家互相吐槽，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">其实目标都是一致的：为了孩子好。</strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; text-indent: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">而要把孩子教育好，单靠学校和教师是不够的，只有学校和家庭、教师和家长协调一致，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">才能形成教育的合力，</strong>避免形成教育真空，使孩子在学校在家庭都能得到良好的教育。</span></p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; box-sizing: border-box;"><section class="" style="opacity: 0.7; padding: 0.2em 0.4em; text-align: center; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(160, 160, 160);"><p style="clear: none; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p></section><section style="width: 0px; float: left; border-right-width: 5px; border-right-style: solid; border-right-color: rgb(160, 160, 160); border-top-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(160, 160, 160); border-left-width: 5px !important; border-left-style: solid !important; border-left-color: transparent !important; border-bottom-width: 3px !important; border-bottom-style: solid !important; border-bottom-color: transparent !important; box-sizing: border-box;"></section><section style="width: 0px; float: right; border-left-width: 5px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: rgb(160, 160, 160); border-top-width: 3px; border-top-style: solid; border-top-color: rgb(160, 160, 160); border-right-width: 5px !important; border-right-style: solid !important; border-right-color: transparent !important; border-bottom-width: 3px !important; border-bottom-style: solid !important; border-bottom-color: transparent !important; box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section class="" style="border: 1px solid transparent; margin-top: -0.5em; padding: 10px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(239, 239, 239);"><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">Py. ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">老师布置家庭作业由家长监督、检查，这事本来无可厚非，却发展成相互吐槽，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">说到底还是一个度的掌握的问题。</strong>家长认为这是老师的责任，应由老师负责；老师认为家庭教育是学校教育的延伸，需要家长付出时间和精力，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">都只从自身角度去看待孩子教育问题，将学校教育与家庭教育的边界划分的过于清晰，</strong>谁越过了这个度，都感觉好像吃了亏。在孩子教育问题上，不妨“求同存异”，双方都不要吝惜对孩子教育的付出，毕竟出发点都是相同的。</p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">无微不至 ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">时代在进步</span><span style="text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">，师之道、长之理都应与时俱进。但是无论怎样变化，应当是共同努力推动教育水平攀升而非倒退。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">学校、家庭的有效沟通终究是孩子健康成长的基础和保证。</strong>为了孩子的现在，为了孩子的未来，都积极行动起来吧，吐了槽，继续上路！</span></p><p style="text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"/></p><p style="white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;">Bingo ：</p><p style="text-indent: 2em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">学校主要负责教孩子书本上的相关知识，是</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">“看得见的</span><span style="text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">教育”</span></strong><span style="text-indent: 2em; letter-spacing: 0px; line-height: 1.6; box-sizing: border-box;">；家长主要负责教孩子生活上的相关常识，是<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“看不见的教育”</strong>。两者是互相影响，都不可或缺的，形成合力可以取得更好的效果。</span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box;">针对这个问题，您有何高见？老规矩，100席精选评论，等着你哟！</p></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" margin-top: 0.5em; margin-bottom: 0.5em;box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="height: 1px; box-sizing: border-box; background-color: rgb(160, 160, 160);"></section></section></section><section class="Powered-by-XIUMI V5" style=" box-sizing: border-box; " powered-by="xiumi.us"><section class="" style=" box-sizing: border-box; "><section class="" style="box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); box-sizing: border-box;">监制：何晏</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); box-sizing: border-box;">策划/编辑：苏娅</span></strong></p><p style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 12px; color: rgb(160, 160, 160); box-sizing: border-box;">图片来源于网络</span></p></section></section></section></section><p><br/></p> 楼主真是好人，东西很有价值！
页:
[1]